Premature Ejaculation And Performance Anxiety

Premature Ejaculation And Performance Anxiety

by | May 31, 2016 | premature-ejaculation

Many men write to me to ask me how they avoid performance anxiety. It is especially when they have just met a new woman and are going to bed with her for the first time that performance anxiety rears its ugly head. They become so nervous that they either cannot get an erection, or ejaculate the moment they penetrate…

I will start by telling you a thing you absolutely MUST understand if you suffer from performance anxiety and have a tendency of getting nervous around women.

A mistake most men make…

I have noticed a fundamental difference between how men and women interact when they meet a ”potentiel partner”.

Women are usually quite relaxed when they meet a new man. They act in a way which signals: “I would like to get to know you better, and then lets see where all of this leads”.

But men have the tendency to see all women that they meet as potential partners for life, new girlfriend material or at least one-night-stands.

So in other words, women are RELAXED in the start when they meet new men. But how relaxed do you think a guy is if he sees any new woman as A POTENTIAL GIRLFRIEND?

It is naturally our “masculine instinct” that we must show ourselves from our best and strongest side to conquer a woman.

But this unfortunately creates a lot of psychic pressure in men, and not a good pressure – it is the kind of pressure that makes men doubt their own ability and be the EXACT OPPOSITE of what they really want to be.

And if you already have experienced premature ejaculation – then it doesn’t exactly make the situation easier …

You begin to doubt yourself and your abilities between the sheets, your ability to satisfy her, how she wants it, what she likes, what you need to do next etc…

You begin to act “nervously” and the woman herself becomes uncomfortable because you are not “centered” … and a vicious cycle is born
In other words you begin to act “nervously” and the woman herself becomes uncomfortable because you are not “centered” … and a vicious cycle is born.

The date ends wih the man coming too quickly and driving home from the date humiliated with a broken self confidence and a nagging doubt if he ever will see the woman again …

You probably can relate to this at some level.

Actually most men can relate to this – even those men that usually don’t have any problems lasting long in bed. All men will at some point experience nervousness or performance anxiety with women.


The solution to the problem …

Performance anxiety is one of the 7 triggers that make men come too quickly again and again. And for many men curing performance anxiety is the ONLY problem they have.

when performance anxiety disappears – problems with premature ejaculation disappear
In other words – when performance anxiety disappears, problems with premature ejaculation disappear.

In our TantraCURE online program we have a WHOLE CHAPTER dedicated to help you overcome performance anxiety.

The technique you peform in the TantraCURE training is simple to perform, but behind it lies a complex knowledge of the body’s energy system and how to let go of negative emotions.

It is important to understand that emotions are just “waves” of negative energy. This negative energy runs (as does sexual energy) in certain meridians in the body (the subtle nervous system). If this negative energy is not released it is stored in the body as muscular tensions and stiffness in the joints.

The good part is that you can learn a technique to release the negative energy in the body when it arises. In this way you remove performance anxiety in the present moment, and liberate yourself from it in the moment it arises.

At the same time you avoid it implanting itself as tension in your body – a tension that gives headaches and blocks the energy flow in the body.

Instead of being transformed into a “nervous and needy” man by your emotions, you can rest in your MASCULINE ESSENCE. In this way you give women exactly what they need to feel in order to trigger an ENORMOUS ATTRACTION towards you.

And this is just one of the advantages of learning to release negative energy.

If you would like to start straight away to overcome performance anxiety and to become mere self-confident, centered, calm and relaxed you can download the TantraCURE training here:

From the first day you will receive techniques to overcome performance anxiety.

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If You Come Too Quickly – This Is How You Turn It To Your Advantage …!

If You Come Too Quickly – This Is How You Turn It To Your Advantage …!

by | May 31, 2016 | premature-ejaculation

In this article I will tell you how it totally against all odds could actually be a unique advantage for you if you at this moment always suffer from premature ejaculation.

All men are different with regards to how much training is needed to get over premature ejaculation.

Let us start by establishing a little known fact – the difference between men who come too quickly and men that can last as long as they like is not as great as you perhaps believe it to be.

Some men need a lot of training, while others need a little training and some men are natural born talents.

But it is essential that you know that if you have problems with premature ejaculation – that this actually can wind up being an ADVANTAGE for you.

Think about it. Men who don’t have problems lasting long without training become lazy – because they get by with what they know. The ladies are not extatic with their performance but are more or less satisfied with the 15 minutes that a slightly above average man can last.

When men that have a problem begin to train seriously, they will slowly but surely pass the natural born talents.
When men that have a problem (like you perhaps do and I once myself had) begin to train seriously, they will SLOWLY BUT SURELY PASS THE NATURAL BORN TALENTS.

I was an absolute zero in bed that could not last longer than 10 seconds, and today I am seen as an expert in my field that already has helped over 3000 men to last longer in bed.

There Is A Lot Of Hope For Men Who Suffer From Premature Ejaculation

In other words – if you begin training, you will not only get results and add minutes to your stamina. You will also learn things about sexual energy and how to truly satisfy women that most men will never know.

When you start learning to channel your sexual energy you will start to be able to satisfy women on a much deeper level than they are used to being satisfied. You will get more intimate, passionate and emotionally satisfying sex.

You will experience gourmet sex instead of boring fast food sex.

You can start your training by starting out on a SIMPLE TRAINING PROGRAM that will help you to add minutes if not tens of minutes to your sexual stamina.



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Are You Hypersensitive?

Are You Hypersensitive?

by | May 31, 2016 | premature-ejaculation

Do you ejaculate the moment you penetrate her? Or even before you take of your pants? Then you probably have serotonin defficiency.

Its a bit comical. But not if you find yourself in the situation.
And it happens to many men – even after the insecure high school and acne years.

The condition is called “hypersensitivity” (duh), and studies show that it is very much related to the lack of the hormone serotonin.

If you have low serotonin levels you might have an extremely low IELT. IELT is an acronym for “INTRAVAGINAL EJACULATION LATENCY TIME” meaning the time between penetration (or stimulation) til ejaculation.

But we must remember that stimulation/arousal starts in the mind – and many men ejaculate in their pants, without any type of physical stimulation. In this case the acronym IELT makes no sense because no penetration has actually taken place.

A more precise acronym would be “AELT” or “AROUSAL EJACULATION LATENCY TIME” – meaning the amount of time between the initial arousal to the ejaculation – but this is more difficult to measure so scientists go with IELT.

Many teenage men suffer from hypersensitivity.

But unfortunately for some men, the problem continues their whole life.
Many doctors (primarily in the US) have tried to treat this type of premature ejaculation with anti-depressant medicine. This type of medicine boosts serotonin levels in different ways but unfortunately often also blocks the erection process, with the result that you suddenly find yourself with another even worse problem – erectile dysfunction.

So anti-depressants are actually not a very effective, natural or satisfying solution.

Premature Ejaculation And The Right Treatment

As in all types of premature ejaculation it is the right kind of training that is required. The problem with hypersensitivity is that if your AELT is so low that you ejaculate after the slightest stimulation – it might be difficult for you even to do classic premature ejaculation exercises (such as start stop techniques) without ejaculating.

As a hypersensitive man you have to balance your serotonin levels first which will give you a slight rise of AELT/IELT. This means that you now can perform breathing techniques and train your pelvic muscles while you are sexually excited – which is a huge leap forward. From there you can start increasing your sexual stamina minute by minute.

One of my clients was so sensitive that he ejaculated as soon as he got a sexual thought or got the slightest bit aroused. By increasing his serotonin levels he could get over his hypersensitivity allowing him to start the basic necessary premature ejaculation arousal training.

In the TantraCURE program I run through all the different hormonal imbalances that make men come too quickly. There are many things you can do that will balance your hormones and strengthen your sexual health through the right diet and lifestyle changes.

For instance, you can:
  • Eat food that boosts or limits certain hormones that play a role in the ejaculation process
  • Regulate your hormones by doing different kinds of exercise and find out whether soft or hard physical exercise is best for you
  • Follow through on life style changes and begin new activities that harmonize your hormones

So click here and check out the TantraCURE program that will help you to harmonize your hormone levels so that you finally can raise your AELT and last as long as you want.




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How To Make A Woman Relax And Give Her Squirting Orgasms

by | Jan 2, 2012 | Ikke kategoriseret

How To Make A Woman Relax And Give Her Squirting Orgasms


Her er en fantastisk video der viser hvordan man giver en kvinde fuld krops orgasmer ved at massere hende på bestemte meridianpunkter. Massage af disse punkter gør at den æteriske energi flyder frit i kroppen. Jeg masserer ofte kvinder med de teknikker han viser og med fantastiske resultater. Kvinder får sprøjte orgasmer og fuld krops orgasmer. For jer der har kvinder der ikke kan få skede orgasmer, men kun overfladiske klitoris orgasmer er denne massageform en enestående måde at få hende til at løsne op. Når din kvinde er mere afspændt er det også nemmere for dig at holde længere. Når kvinder spænder i underlivet, vil du også ubevidst spænde i dit underliv, hvilket leder til for tidlig sædafgang. Mange parforhold lider fordi kvinden har spændinger i underlivet. Det gør at hun er irritabel og lukker af for dig seksuelt. Det kan dog kræve en del massagesessioner før I kan opnå samme resultater, som dem du ser i videoen. Men det er muligt! Man skal bare gøre det til en vane. Giv hende denne form for massage et par gange om ugen mindst 17 gange og der vil begynde at ske mirakler i jeres parforhold. For jer der endu ikke har prøvet EFT teknikken beskrevet i trin 1 i hovedmanualen, håber jeg at denne video viser jer hvor stor en indflydelse tapning og massage af meridian punkterne har. Når hun er i stand til at få sådanne orgasmer ved at han har løsnet op for spændinger og blokering i hendes meridian punkter, så forestil dig hvad du vil få ud af en fuld krops massage og at få fjernet blokeringer i dine egne energibaner. Jeg kan varmt anbefale at I besøger www.tantra-temple.com for at få en fuld kropsmassage. Der kan du modtage massage fra kvinder som er uddannet i Tantrisk massage. Massagen vil hjælpe dig til at løsne op for de seksuelle energier og dermed holde længere i sengen. Skriv endelig kommentar nedenunder, hvis I vil have jeg skal uddybe noget omkring det i ser her.
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Premature Ejaculation and Visualization

by | Dec 12, 2011 | Ikke kategoriseret

One of the main reasons men suffer from premature ejaculation is performance anxiety. One of the most efficient cures for performance anxiety is the ability to visualize. Being able to see the whole lovemaking scenario in your minds eye on before hand will help your body to be prepared for the “sensual onslaught” which happens during lovemaking. Exactly as professional athletes work with a sport psychologist to visualize their performance – you are able to visualize your own sexual performance. It boils down to being able to see yourself perform perfectly. And when you think about it, being able to perform for a long time in bed is a very physical endeavor and can in many ways be likened to performing sports. In the following video Arnold Schwarzenegger speaks about the art of visualization and how he has used it to get success in 3 different fields: Bodybuilding, acting and politics. You can overcome premature ejaculation with the correct mindset. By picturing a perfect lovemaking scenario where you last long, you can get your body to perform exactly like you wish it to perform. Your body performs much better when you have fed it the end result by feeding your brain with the imagery of what you wish to achieve. To show you this important principle, I have included a video that shows Anthony Robbins instructing Frank Kern and John Reese in how visualizing something affects the bodies ability to perform. When you have seen the video you will get a deeper understanding of how the body follows the pictures you create in your mind. Understanding this might give you the break through that you need in order to cure premature ejaculation. ATTENTION! The exercise itself starts 25 minutes into the video When you feel you have understood the concepts, heres a little exercise you can perform a couple of hours before meeting with your girl friend:


EXERCISE: Find a comfortable spot where you won’t get disturbed. You can sit on a chair keeping your spine straight, it’s also okay to sit in your favourite couch. Now close your eyes and imagine the perfect lovemaking scenario. To get a clear inner picture you can ask yourself the following questions: Who are you making love with? How does she look? What is her hair color? Eye color? How does her perfume smell? Where are you making love? How long time does it last? What feeling are you giving your partner? How is your self confidence? You must pick a situation, and replay it again and again every evening. – Each time you do it then add more and more visual details: the details of the surroundings, details of how the woman looks, details of the lovemaking etc. Each time become more and more specific with the sensations and emotions. Visualization performed on a daily basis is one of the most efficient methods to gain success. If you use 10 minutes per day visualizing before going to bed – you will be able to feel the effects after a couple of days.
Visualization is a big topic and I have a ton of videos and information which could be interesting for you. This was just a little appetizer. I hope it was useful and that you will start experimenting with the technique. If you have any questions about visualization you are most welcome to ask me by leaving a comment down below. I have many years of experience using these principles and I have achieved a great deal of success with the technique. I have used it to gain top performances in basketball and swimming, I have used it to become more supple, I have used it to manifest certain amounts of money, I have used it to improve my ability to last longer in bed and even to visualize vacant parking spots on busy days. The whole secret is being able to picture as intensely and focused as possible when visualizing, eliminate all doubt and focus on the feeling of already having obtained what you wish for. So go on ahead and try it! You have nothing to lose and an amazing sex life to gain.
In TantraCURE I will go more in depth with how you can cure premature ejaculation using visualization. I often use visualization with great success to obtain the perfect performance in bed. If you are going out tonight on a date or just meeting your woman, why not give her the best time of her life? If you have any questions about TantraCURE, please leave a comment down below and I’ll get back as quickly as possible. I wish you a great day and lots of success on your path to sexual mastery Hans P.S. If this article was interesting for you ==>
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