But if you are like most men, you probably take a shower, grab a glass of water, walk the dog – anything that gets you mind away from your failure.
But what is the worst aspect of this situation for the woman?
Its exactly this tendency of yours – to walk away, the fact that you’re closing down emotionally. That you “disappear” from her.
Everything was going so nicely, and now the whole ambience disappeared so suddenly …
When I speak with couples where the man suffers from premature ejaculation the woman and the men always tell me two completely different versions of the scenario.
The man feels that the relationship is going well, but that he has a little problem between the sheets – he cannot last long enough. The woman on the other hand feels that they have a little problem in bed, but a HUGE problem in the relationship because he doesn’t want to talk about the little problem in bed.
The fact that he is closing off and not wanting to talk about it represents in her mind a HUGE problem that worries her MUCH MORE than the premature ejaculation problem itselfIt may be irritating for her that he comes too quickly, and she wishes that he would last longer. But the fact that he is closing off and not wanting to talk about the problem represents in her mind a HUGE problem that worries her MUCH MORE than the premature ejaculation problem itself.
This is counter-intuitive for the man.
But this is none the less the reality of the woman.
When you walk away from her and you refuse to talk about it, she might feel unloved, unappreciated, that the magic disappears and that you don’t like her, that she has done something wrong and that you couldn’t be bothered with her.
At the same time she is worried about you and would like to know how you feel and if everything is ok.
All of this can easily be avoided and you talk to her about your problem once and for all.
– Tell her how you normally feel after a premature ejaculation accident and how you most of all feel like being alone or how you feel like pulling back emotionally. Just understanding how you feel will make her feel much better.
– Make it crystal clear to her that your feelings for her are intact and that your need to be alone if you come too quickly has got nothing to do with her and that it is not her fault either.
− Tell her that she turns you on so much that you cannot control yourself, that she’s simply too beautiful and sexy.
– But most important of all: Tell her that you are working on the problem and then follow through and actually PUT IN THAT EXTRA MILE to solve the problem so that you can get good and satisfying sex together. Both for your and her sake.
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